tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6486214074384158284.post4682969978828363410..comments2023-05-03T01:18:17.167+10:00Comments on Dialectic Dichotomy: When The "Good Parent" Isn'tChrysalishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987538360359912475noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6486214074384158284.post-67985084592021472932010-08-30T00:24:17.559+10:002010-08-30T00:24:17.559+10:00I've incidences in therapy sessions when I rea...I've incidences in therapy sessions when I realize certain things about my childhood and relationships that I denied. I just have to really focus on the fact that I think those people had the best intentions...but no one is perfect...and can't always do what is needed or the right thing<br /><br />take care and stay strong<br />-LisaLisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08299345300291588030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6486214074384158284.post-25574131260006492942010-08-29T00:48:34.424+10:002010-08-29T00:48:34.424+10:00i had this too. i had cast my father as the bad pa...i had this too. i had cast my father as the bad parent because his abuses were more overt; easy to give a time and date and location to. whereas my mother's abuses were more attitudinal, general and vague, so i had her as the good parent.<br />it's been interesting to come to realize (over the course of many years) that she may in fact have been more damaging to be as a kid that my father was.Riverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04170103458635707685noreply@blogger.com